"Shedding Old Ties: My Journey to Embracing Growth and Self-Empowerment"

It’s been a while since I last poured my thoughts onto this blog, and oh, how life has unfolded! Since my last entry, I've navigated so much change and heartache, leading me to deep introspection. The loss of my beloved grandmother in 2022 shifted my perspective on time – our time on Earth is both precious and fleeting. With each passing moment, I've faced even more loss that urged me to reflect on how I'm showing up in this world. I had to ask myself, who truly deserves access to my energy, my dreams, and my heart? I began to remember moments from my past, specifically a friendship in my early teens, that taught me a painful lesson about respect and boundaries. That friend constantly belittled me, reminding me of my perceived shortcomings. It was all too easy to allow her words to define me, especially since adults urged me to "make up" and ignore her harmful comments. However, her behavior toward me never changed.  I found myself in a cycle of relationships that mirrored this dynamic – a struggle for validation, surrounded by those who mocked my ambitions and dreams. But here’s the revelation: I’m not a victim! Through reflection, I've become aware of the excuses I made for others while feeling guilty for establishing boundaries. I'm not playing that game anymore!

Today, I choose to let go of those who leave me feeling drained.  To that young girl who struggled for acceptance, I’m sorry. I’m sorry that you felt the need to shrink yourself to fit someone else's narrative. But for you, I will now take a stand! I refuse to sacrifice myself for others. I am dedicated to empowering not just those around me, but also my own journey. So, here’s to releasing what no longer serves me and embracing who I am becoming. #Boundaries #Selfdiscovery #Empowerment #NewBeginnings

Have you ever felt the need to set boundaries in your relationships? What changes have you made to prioritize your well-being? Share your experiences below!